I just finished reading Wild at Heart.
Basically, the author, John Eldredge, explains how Christian men have been told be "be nice" and instructs and encourages the reader to overcome these teachings.
Excellent! As a man who is tired of the Feminization of the American Male, and who thinks becoming a Christian shouldn't mean surrendering your masculinity, this tome spoke to my heart.
Loud and clear is the message; You are a man; act like one! Courage ... boldness ... risk-taking ... it's all there, buried in your heart, waiting to unearthed and harnessed for good.
I very much recommend this book.
All The Best,